I am a Christian who has friends who are Christian and gay and some are even married. A relationship that manifests itself in love between two people who want to spend the rest of their lives together is something that is worth supporting. Instead of wasting energy on the debate of sin how about extending grace and love as Christ commanded (not suggested). I find it helpful to be a neighbor to someone who is different than me and try to understand their lives. In the fight of semantics and sin we have forgotten a the more serious issues of people who are going hungry, homeless, violence in our streets and suffering of the sick.